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Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

Tags: Workplace, Employee, Health Care, Health Cost, Robert Rice, Hirschfeld, Recruitment & Selection, Human Resources, Workforce Management, Adam L. Penenberg, Adam L. Penenberg, Bully, Bullying, Bob Sutton, Gary Namie, Workplace Violence, Harrassment

The term “bully” used to conjure up images of schoolyard jerks like Eddie Haskell of “Leave It to Beaver” fame or the bossy Lucy of the comic strip “Peanuts.” But business has produced enough tyrants of its own — from Sunbeam’s former CEO “Chainsaw” Al Dunlap to Mattel’s hot-tempered former chief Jill Barad — that the issue of workplace bullying has grown up alongside those playground tormentors and is now recognized as a pervasive — and expensive — employment problem.

Current research bears out the notion that bullying is widespread, cuts across age and gender lines, and affects virtually every sector of the economy. The Workplace Bullying Institute (WBI) estimates that 54 million U.S. workers have been directly affected by a bully or have seen one in action. In a survey of 400 government and private sector employees taken in August 2008, the WBI found that 95 percent of the respondents were self-described targets of bullying, either currently or in the past.

Bullies are most likely to be bosses — 81 percent by the WBI’s measure. But some 14 percent of the tormentors are co-workers of a victim, and 5 percent of reported bullies actually badger their higher ups. Co-workers who witness bullying (and the WBI found that 97 percent are aware of bullying when it happens) shy away from helping. In 46 percent of the cases studied by the WBI last September, colleagues abandoned the bullied co-worker, while 15 percent actually joined the bully to torment the victim.

What Constitutes Bullying?

Common wisdom used to be that a workplace bully was an overly strict boss who barked out an order or lost his or her temper. It was often assumed — and still is by most courts — that bullying is the result of an office “personality conflict.”

But workplace experts now identify bullying as a pattern of behavior that takes many forms and includes a host of offensive behaviors, from screaming insults to ignoring employees’ contributions. A 2003 survey conducted by the WBI named among the most prevalent bullying tactics blaming others for one’s errors, inconsistent enforcement of arbitrary rules, and socially excluding an employee. Bullying can mean a boss denying promotions or publicly and unfairly criticizing an employee’s work. It may take the form of spreading salacious gossip or of excessively monitoring an employee’s workday. It can involve fits of rage, public humiliation, or intimidating behavior such as finger-pointing, shoving, or blocking a door or passageway.

The behavior can range from subtle — constantly invading an employee’s cubicle, say — to overt, as in repeatedly pressuring an employee to quit or retire. Bullies rarely become truly violent, studies have shown, but the WBI reports that bullying can be a prolonged pattern of behavior toward a victim — lasting, on average, 16.5 months.

What Are the Costs to Business?

All this bad behavior comes at a price. It can lead to absenteeism, increased health-care costs, and greater turnover. “The exact price of the cost of a bully is elusive because the effects are global within an organization,” says Dr. Gary Namie, founder of WBI and a frequent speaker on bullying. “You have to factor in so many indirect costs: lost productivity, disability, absenteeism, turnover, higher insurance premiums, litigation.”

In general, a business saddled with a bully will spend more on sick leave (on average, seven days more per year for bullied employees than for nonbullied workers), greater absenteeism, an increase in on-the-job accidents, and lost productivity (employees who are bullied say they spend between 10 percent and 52 percent of their day fending off harassment instead of working). According to the Level Playing Field Institute, a loss of just 2 percent in productivity at an average Fortune 500 company due to “unfair treatment,” which includes bullying, runs in the neighborhood of $8 million a year.

Perhaps the biggest hidden cost is that of turnover. Namie’s studies have found that 82 percent of bullied workers eventually leave their jobs. The Level Playing Field estimates that the replacement costs for employees leaving a Fortune 500 company because of “unfair treatment” are more than $16 million annually.

In addition, the bully who earns a six-figure income is often an overachiever, says Mark Goulston, a workplace coach based in Los Angeles. “So when you let him go and hire new people, it’s going to cost at least twice his salary to replace him. Plus, the company suffers a lag in productivity and spends money associated with training new workers.”

What Are the Psychological Costs?

Health costs are another hidden factor. According to WBI’s Namie, a psychotherapist, employees find bullying “psychological torture” and often suffer from a form of post-traumatic stress disorder. His surveys have found that 41 percent of bullying victims become depressed, 76 percent report suffering from “severe anxiety,” 84 percent experience sleep disruption, and that 40 percent of victims who leave their jobs do so because of health-related issues.

The psychological effects of being bullied can’t be overstated, as Robert Rice, a former supply chain manger at Boeing in St. Louis, Mo., can attest. After 24 years at Boeing — which credited him with saving $2.3 billion by increasing supply efficiencies — a new supervisor began a campaign that belittled Rice and included not-so-veiled threats of dismissal. Eventually he ordered Rice to search for his own replacement. When Rice, his livelihood in jeopardy, learned that the new hire would not only receive a far fatter salary but also a company car, he cracked. He purchased a $52,000 BMW on eBay with a company credit card. “I was slowly going postal in a financial way,” he says.

The bullying also led him to get into scrapes with co-workers, including calling a colleague a “bitch” in one incident. He was dismissed because of such conduct in 2005. When the BMW and other unauthorized purchases came to light, the company investigated and Rice pleaded guilty to misusing corporate credit cards, repaying the company $299,000. He spent more than 10 months in prison.

Rice is now out of jail, but Boeing confiscated stock worth about $650,000 and voided his pension. The IRS alleges that the money Rice took is subject to tax, even though he already repaid it. “I don’t know if I’m going to be able to hold on to my house,” he says. “I don’t know how I’ll pay my kids’ tuition. I smile as much as I can despite the mess I got myself into.”

What Are the Legal Challenges?

It is a federal crime to harass someone in a “protected class,” which includes discriminating against someone on the basis of race, religion, national origin, gender, or physical disability. In some places — Washington, D.C., for example — it’s even illegal to discriminate against someone based on physical appearance. But there’s no law governing workplace bullies, especially those who harass everyone equally. “The equal-opportunity jerk is protected by law,” says Nicholas Woodfield, a principal with The Employment Law Group, PC, in Washington, D.C.

Bullying cases are a tough sell: Judges are typically hostile to claims of intentional infliction of emotional distress in the workplace. “The judges hear these claims all the time,” Woodfield says. “They get a bit jaded and calloused because everyone has had hard times at work, and courts are reluctant to intervene over a personality conflict. They don’t want to be seen as a super HR department.”

Plaintiff’s lawyer Steve Hirschfeld, a partner in San Francisco–based Curiale, Dellaverson, Hirschfeld & Kraemer, believes that bullying will become illegal and that the issue has already become a front-burner issue for many managers. “Most sophisticated employers now understand [that] if they don’t handle bullying, they are looking for trouble,” he says. He used to give training in how to rid the workplace of sexual harassment. “Now I give training in all kinds of workplace behavior as companies realize they have to move beyond the law,” he says. He thinks that bullying will follow the path of sexual harassment, which required legislation to get the issue before the courts.

Hirschfeld is no doubt encouraged by David Yamada, founder of the New Workplace Institute and a tenured law professor at Suffolk Law School in Boston. He has drafted the Healthy Workplace Bill, which seeks to close what Yamada sees as a loophole in existing employment law that enables bullies to continue bullying as long as they bully “equally.” Yamada’s bill would make it unlawful to subject workers to an “abusive workplace” that causes “physical or psychological harm” to an employee. Significantly for business, it would make employers liable for the actions of bullies within their organization.

So far, legislators in 13 states have proposed bills based on Yamada’s draft; among the states considering such a law are California, Connecticut, Kansas, Massachusetts, New York, Oregon, Vermont, and Washington. No state has yet passed such a law, and most states considering a bill find the legislation tough to push through. In Washington, for example, the original proposal barred bullying behavior in the public and private sectors, but it was subsequently amended to cover only state employees. The bill is currently sitting in the House Appropriations Committee.

 
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    rajesh_rs

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    This is a very important article on Bnet because it addresses a very important issue in workplaces today. Not many of us are fortunate enough to have a good workplace without interventions in terms of harassment. Fewer still are lucky not to face a bully or a difficult colleague before they reach middle age as a professional. Even though I have had just a few years of experience as a professional, I am yet to find a workplace that is perfect and in all likelihood, there are no such. One cannot stress more, the importance of managing co workers in such a way that they don't enter into behavior that can be considered similar to bullying and even further, one cannot stress the importance of containing bullying that goes out of control.

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    debbie1967

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    Bullies and their protection

    My career was wrecked by a femail boss. I joined a large telco corporation in the UK with a fantastic track record. I believe she found me a threat and tried to destroy my reputation with unfounded rumours. HR were uncomfortable by her behaviour. I asked them to investigate her past, and it turned out she was a serial bully. HR, on my behalf presented their concerns. Senior management chose not to support me and feared the repercussions.

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    amesri

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    My experience has been that management takes on a bullying stance when faced with bullying by problem employees. In other words, management is not aware of an effective and fair way to respond to bullying by a problem employee and then becomes 'infected' with the stance. I believe if managers receive clear definitions of bullying and are trained on how to identify it, deal with it, and prevent it ... bullying would not spread throughout the workplace.

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    debbie1967

    10/28/08 | Report as spam

    Bullies and their protection

    My career was wrecked by a femail boss. I joined a large telco corporation in the UK with a fantastic track record. I believe she found me a threat and tried to destroy my reputation with unfounded rumours. HR were uncomfortable by her behaviour. I asked them to investigate her past, and it turned out she was a serial bully. HR, on my behalf presented their concerns. Senior management chose not to support me and feared the repercussions may effect their own careers. I was left with no option, but to accept a pay-off. I should have taken notice of her comment at interview stage, "do you have a problem working for a woman?" The reverse psychology of this question is, she had a problem working with men! She kept her job and yet another multiple victim (me) had his untarnished career destroyed.

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    debbie1967

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    In the UK, there's no protection, unless you're disabled, or from ethnic origin. There's no body to help you fight unreasonable behaviour. If you're being bullied, and you want to make a stand, forget it! Your career is already over, so move on and find another job. Always remember that the UK turn blind eye to work bullying, and although there are agencies to help you with stress support, there's no help to support a case. Don't believe anyone who tells you anything different!

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    debbie1967

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    I want to see Bullies publically Named and Shamed. I want a record created like a criminal record list, or 'list 99' of registered bullies. Bullying is not only bad for productivity, it destroys an entire family unit to affecting health, wealth, the wife and children. This is all because of one evil person who has poor management qualities. A useful message for all management is always 'manage people in, not out'. It saves resource, time and money.

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    debbie1967

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    A bit of advice. If you sense a bully is on to you, get out and fast! It's better to be with piece of mind than to fight a futile battle with someone who will lie to get the boss on her side. Bewhere the femail bully. It's written that they can be the worst. You better belive it!

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    slreddic

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    This article really hit home for me. Prior to my promotion to Vendor Operations Manger, I had the top performing team for 13 months straight, and was promoted to Lead Supervisor of our company's largest call center after just one year. I was so excited to be a call center manager because it so fun to learn and develop professionally. Instead, I've been bullied by co-workers who seem not only to feel threatened, but also very territorial and resistant to change. I have been humiliated on conference calls, information withheld, emails ignored, and even though our boss put me in charge of certain initiatives, some of my colleagues refused to make their employees comply with the timeline or assignments I gave them. I violated the number one rule I tell mentors which is to never give people permission to make me feel bad. Well, no more. I'm taking my dignity back, and asserting myself more.

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    annihilatrix

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Question for slreddic: What do you mean by "asserting yourself more"? What are you actually going to do?

    Just wondering....

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    dkopkau

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I am glad to see information on this topic. I was a victim of workplace bullying. It took the whole office putting in their resignation to get rid of the bully. It did happen and the organization is much better for it. The bully is still in contact with the organization and is happier in their new position of working for themselves.

    Thanks again. I hope more can be done to stop bullying in the workplace.

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    Datawiz

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    A very interesting article and one that I feel is needed to open discussion around these sorts of issues. Workplace bullying is a recent term in the same way that road rage came into the market a few years ago. I also find that when something goes against someone at work these days it is easier to pull terms like this. Is it bullying to ask someone to do their jobs? And is it bullying if the person you ask to do something, consistently doesn't do it? Is losing your temper once at work being a bully? In the same way if your parent yelled at you when you were growing up, were they bullies? While to say that all men or most beat woman would be wrong, to say that all bosses or indeed most bosses are bullies is not correct either. I think everyone needs to look at what is being said at times and if the business is not getting the results it expects from an individual then obviously it should have the right to question or seek remedies. In the same way is it bullying behaviour for a team member to accuse a boss or someone else in the business of bullying because they do not get what they want? Is it wrong to expect someone to do their job?

    Harassment is different and I believe that if this is what is being described as bullying, then use the correct term. We all know of the school yard bully, the one that used to threaten (or indeed use) violence. There wasn?t one in every class but maybe one or two in every school. Our teachers were there to teach us and ensure we stayed on the straight and narrow. Why is it that most people feel bullied as adults at some time or another. Is it because we want to do what we want when we want too? Well unfortunately unless you own the business, we can not do this and this is part of having to work for an income and means during the hours you are contracted to work, we have to do whatever is required to be done. If we don?t like it then the other option is to either buy the business and change the way it works, or find something else.

    I would be interested in what thoughts come out of this.

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    kjpparker

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I was bullied by my manager atone of the Gannett
    Newspapers for about a year. I repeatedly went to HR to no avail. It became so miserable I had to quit. In my exit interview they said I did agree with my managers management style. I was the 6th person to leave because of this manager in less then a year and 1/2. This woman even assaulted an employee by grabbing her and pulling her because she was talking to another employee too long and HR still did not get it. I wish I could have sued them , but like this story says it is very hard to explain let alone prove. I hope businesses will start recognizing they are loosing alot of valuable people and money. Businesses need to start taking this seriously.

    Wishing I had been able to stay I really enjoyed my old job!

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    karenyvonne

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    Bullying will continue to be talked about with nothing done about it as long as HR allows it happen. I worked for a bully who ran off 20+ people over the yrs. Despite her evil behavior, she thinks she will be first in line at the Pearly Gates. HR knew about it and did nothing. When I complained to HR about it, I was told by the HR director, "I didn't hire her." Our HR got it but did nothing about it. The only way we got rid of her was she bullied someone who eventually was promoted above her and she was gone in a month.
    Bullying not only happens at work, it happens at grad school by college professors. It is everywhere and has been for centuries.
    Adolf Hitler was an evil bully. He got away with it as long as he did because the outside world turned their backs on his victims making them accomplices by their silence.
    Society needs to take bullying seriously and there needs to be punitive consequences when it happens. Bullies can't take a dose of their own medicine; they can only dole it out.
    klouis

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    ram1951

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Though it is nomore as popular as it was earlier, bullying is considered a management technique. When I started my managerial career, I was advised by my boss to have a weekly screams in the shopfloor, which he said, would help tone up the adminsitration. Ironically, towards the end of my career, I became a victim of a female bully manager and had to quit my assignment in a huff. Bullies develop their own coterie, who keep spreading adorations about their hero and this becomes a reinforcing factor for bullying. In an environment of bullying, the non-bully manager is considered unsure of himself and rated non-assertive. After all there is only a thinline that differentiates bully from assertive manager and a discrete observer can differentiate between the two. IN the new economy companies, bullying was discarded as old management technique, but unfortuntely in the ITES sector, this "technique" has been revived.

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    jcalire

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    It also happens in an economic downturn, usually employers will take this stand to get rid of employees to cut down cost on retrenchment etc.

    Instead of allowing it to spread like a disease, it should be fought against, only then can there be a cure.

    Standing on the sidelines is not a safe bet, worst still to be on the side of the bully, because what goes around comes around!

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    pollyana

    10/29/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    How about an article on how to deal with the workplace bully?

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    onoropu

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Well, I went through a phase when I was a bully!

    The situation arose when my senior line manager (a
    woman) created a situation where her direct reports
    (all male) were encouraged to compete with each other
    for kudos, resources, her approbation, etc.

    In responding to this, I and the other mangers, pushed
    our respective people harder and harder, to the point
    where we all stepped over the line.

    The scary thing was that none of us realized what was
    happening until after we moved to other parts of the
    organization or left entirely.

    It is not something I am proud of.

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    jrhutchi

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Datawiz is right on the money. We have become such a coddled society that asking someone to do their job correctly is considered bullying. Workplaces have become social networks where many do the bare minimum to get by. When a manager attempts to correct this by whatever method, and if he is persistent he eventually becomes labeled a bully. If legislation is passed how can you differentiate between bullying, and attempting to get people to perform the work they are being paid for?

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    timetowork

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I've worked in small, entrepreneurial companies for my entire career and have dealt with temperamental, highly-driven and demanding CEOs at every stop. I recently started working for a larger company with a true "Bully" for a CEO. Here's the fun part, I'm the VP of HR! The HR Director who reports to me aviods all discussion because of his own fears of top management. My direct boss is in line for succession so he chimes in during the bullying sessions to prove his loyalty. It is truly miserable, never knowing when I'll get attacked verbally and publically for my ideas, for my knowledge of things of which he's unaware...and even sometimes for doing my job! I think therein lies the difference between a demanding boss and a bully, no amount of success removes the target from your back, it's undue hostility directed at people whimsically. I'm a well accomplished professional and I have thick skin, but this just isn't worth it. I'm drinking more, I stopped getting to work early, and I'm even finding I clench my teeth on a regular basis. I've been here only 3 months and I'm already looking. The company paid nearly half of my salary to get me here with recruiting costs and my signing bonus, and they'll lose me shortly. I'm not coddled, I'm professional, and I refuse to work for someone who is non-collegial, disrespectful and downright mean. I don't support him and therefore I don't support the company and I'm not comfortable with that. I've worked for too many true leaders to know the difference between driven people with difficult personalities and @$$%*!&$.

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    joelynm

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    This article is so true on many counts. Another point not mentioned is that collaboration amoung co-workers decreases significantly in this type of environment decreases the quality and quantity of the work output. Furthermore, with a bully manager, I have found the tendancy for subordinates who get along with the boss, to pattern their behavior after him/her.

    A great book to read is Bullies: From The Playground to the Boardroom by Jane Middelton-Moz and Mary Lee Zawadski. They identify six distinct types of bullies and ways to deal with them. I had just read one particular chapter when the following day I experienced an interaction with our department bully. I couldn't believe it at the time. But I remembered the chapter, used all the suggestions from that chapter and it worked well for me.

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    priyanka116@...

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I think this is where 360 degree appraisal becomes far more useful. Rather than having just one way communication of employees' performance travelling through their bosses, their boss's performance should also travel through subordinates. According to me, a fair chance should be given to each and every employee and then if the person fails to convince, the person either hasn't got enough evidence to be able to justify bullying or management is not willing to act. I have worked with a horrible bully for 1.5 years and though I have enough explanation of how she was a bully, my company never gave me a chance to put my case fair and square.

    For intance, she would BCC sr. manager on her mails writing all the things that are pending and should have been completed last week. This when she is completed apprised of all the developments on each item and herself has given go-ahead for each. Since I would reply to her mail (without knowing she has BCC'd Sr. Manager), she would then come over chirpily and make an excuse how all this information slipped out of her mind. Pl note that the complete picture will never get presented to sr. manager. Another annoying behavior was to choose favorites and make them high-performers (hi-po) and there would be a season for each team member to become a hi-po lasting anywhere between 15 days to 4 months. After this period, someone else will become hi-po. The last hi-po will be put on close watch from management i.e. a period where this person's performance is closely observed and the person will be terminated if not found up to the mark.

    During her fake feedback sessions, I mentioned to her that her rude words, behavior and presenting coloured pictures to senior management is distressing. Not just to me but to quite a lot of team members. She would then reprimand me for how none of us are up to the mark for the job, how I have messed up every single project and how I should learn something from the new team member who joined a month back (or current hi-po).

    During one of my seasons when I was a hi-po, she was coaching me to be a manager and her continual emphasis was on how managers are universally hated by their teams. As a manager, the task is to get the work done according to cost, time, quality commitments and since people by nature don't want to work, so they need stick. Hence, as manager, one shouldn't be shying away from using stick and that all our hatred towards her was just because she is a manager.

    A big part of the problem was her manager who encouraged and entertained smallest of the issues with her team members. He was the one coaching her to ignore team member morale and keep using the stick, to ignore all feedback and to act according to her whims and wishes. There was absolutely none to hear our woes. When a team member would go to HR, the management committee would talk to manager/sr.manager without involving the team member and the manager/sr. manager will go on describing and using those emails as evidence of how this person is worthless and has never produced a single good piece of work in all his tenure.

    I am so glad that I left the company. I am now blessed with a good manager and a good system where each and every employee's voice and woes are heard.

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    techno_pen

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I lived with one for 18 years (finally divorced him). The bully's "personality issues" are in reality a narcissistic outlook on life. That is, they see themselves one way and expect that everyone around them should see them in the same wonderful light. When others don't, the problems begin. The reason most of them are bosses is that they really are either intelligent or very capable- but totally lack humility. So they get upset and try "make" people have the correct response. In reality, they just haven't matured.

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    natcj

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    WOW! I wish this information was available to
    me 2 years ago when I was being bullied. I was
    26 years old, working for a Fortune 500
    company, Limited Brands (victoria secret) and
    was bullied by a co-worker. I went to my
    manager, her manager, multiple times, my HR
    department, and each time it was always
    something that delayed enforcing company policy
    on the bully. A co-worker who had worked for
    Limited Brands for 15 years told me I was the
    first person to stand up to her-the bully.
    Many young girls were previously in my position
    and all since left because of the bully. I am
    still disgusted in how "politically correct"
    people were and how afraid management was of
    the bully. This bully had no college education
    and was running out, young, motivated, college-
    educated individuals that had strong work
    ethics. I wish the company knew what they were
    losing because of their fear to stand up to the
    bully.

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    natcj

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    The bullying got so bad I had 3 ribs out of
    place and had to be in physical therapy for
    almost 9 months. The stress of the bully came
    from behind me, because she sat behind me and
    the pressure became built up in my scapula.
    Would this be hard to prove? Of course, but I
    know it was from the bully. Did I mention I am
    a marathon runner? I am certainly not out of
    shape enough to cause the 3 ribs of mine to be
    pushed out. I wish those in management would
    get a back bone before being in a management
    position, so those of us below, wouldn't have
    to break our back bones and ribs defending
    ourselves all the time in the office. After
    all, we need to be working, right? If
    management was concerned about work
    productivity, they would ensure a safe and
    respectable environment for all co-workers. My
    fiance' is an attorney, specializing in
    corporate litigation, and I definitely searched
    my options for claiming workplace harassment.
    As said before, it is very hard to win that
    particular type of case.

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    qcrfc1957

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    This article couldn't be more true. I had the same type of problem with my previous company. My manager and the CTO above her were constantly after me to resolve a large scale computer system problem brought on by a project put into production by my boss. We warned her ahead of time that it wouldn't work but she was able to convince the CTO that I was wrong. This system was implemented and failed the first day. It was now my responsibilty to get it fixed but my boss refused to give me the resources needed to get it done. She constantly wanted to know why it wasn't fixed. I got calls at every hour of the day and night with system failures and only poor support and abuse from my management. Finally after the CEO was informed of the problems from the customer, I was given the resources to resolve the issue. But the bullying didn't stop there, in fact it increased now that the problem had the attention of senior management. When the team of 10 senior technicians requested a re-write of a major section of the system, the pressure became unbearable. Six months into this situation and after 26 years with the company I resigned and left the same day. It took 6 months before I could face looking for a new job. I still can't sleep without medication. Work place bullying is a reality.

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    gerry.madigan@...

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    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Who's to blame for bullying? Having read the article and the comments, it still rings loud and clear in my ears that bullying will thrive and survive as long as it's allowed to do so. A great Irishman once said, "All it takes for evil to survie and thrive, is for a few men of good conscience to do nothing"-Edward Burke. As instanced by many of the scenarios in the comments above, it highlights how utterly ineffective many HR departments can be when it comes to actually managing this human resource issue. I have heard so much 'empty rhetoric' spouted by supposed HR professionals throughout my many careers, but all too rarely have I seen any concrete 'action' being taken by those same professionals to make a difference and apply their knowledge and expertise to resolve these delicate and sensitive issues that undermine the very fabric of the workplace.
    Let me state it very clearly - any HR professional or direcotr, leader, or manager who is made ware of bullying in the workplace, and does nothing about it - they are equally culpable for the conduct of that bully, adn they become bullies themselves by their association and condoning of the behaviour. I have seen it in the classroom, in universities, in social groups. in associations, and in the workplace at every level. Shame on anyone who succumbs to such abominable behaviour, but double shame on the people who are in a position to do something and do nothing about it.
    All bullies are cowards, and they should be exposed. The office bully is no less an aggressor and predator than the man who abuses his wife, or the paedophile who preys on young children. They display the exact same characteristics - they prey on those who are unable to defend themselves.
    The true character of any man is revealed by how he treats those who can do nothing for him in return. The greatest virtue in life is one human being helping another human being. How lacking in virtue and character is the practice of bullying. So next time you see or hear of somone being bullied - don't just stand there or engage in office gossip about the bully - DO SOMETHING about it! The geatest antidote to fear is action - take action on the part of the victim, and help them to escape from the unrighteous dominion of the bully.
    Gerry Madigan

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    catmattice

    10/29/08 | Report as spam

    Great information, but...

    It should also be noted that other countries ALREADY have laws in place to curb workplace bullying. Ireland, the UK, Australia, Sweden... America is only now realizing the true importance of healthy worklife.

    Catherine
    www.NoWorkplaceBullies.com

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    Sharnoldin

    10/29/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Boy, this topic is sparking a lot of great conversation. It is clear that this topic sparks passion in a lot of people. We must stop this bullying. I would venture to say these workplace bullies had their start as schoolyard bullies and were allowed to continue so they felt their behavior was acceptible. I see it all the time, people say "someone ought to do something about someone's behavior" well wake up we are all the someone. If you see something that is wrong enough to spark you to say something about it to your friend then have the courage to do something to solve it.

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    Datawiz

    10/29/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Thanks Timetowork, I would not like to be in your situation. I am in full agreement that there are instances of bullying and your example I would put into that category. I must be lucky in that I have not been placed in a situation yet (only been working 25 years) where I have either been bullied or seen it. Certainly not to the extents of some of the comments posted here. What I do see though is this term being used more and more each day. As the General Manager of a small business employing 35 staff and with 23 of them in sales positions, my sales managers and I have all been accused of bullying over the last 12 months. The funny thing is that it is normally the low performers that say this. I do not have our successful sales members saying this.

    I think as commented before that yes there is always going to be a minority of staff (both managers and staff) that can be labeled "bullies" and I also agree that these need to be dealt with. I would also though use the term harassment of which our country does have employment laws in place to deal with. We do not though have laws about bullying. Under Health and safety regulations, placing undue stress or an environment that is not physically safe is and can be enforceable.

    I do see though also that there are a lot of either bad managers or managers learning how to be good managers. I believe like most positions that you do have to learn how to achieve this and I see it falling into two categories. 1. good people skills and 2. good operational skills. Most managers get into their positions by being really good at one of these aspects. Really good managers learn to develop both of these aspects.

    As a manager and therefore still an employee, it does frustrate me that the term bully is used incorrectly ?at times?. It can also place a huge amount of stress on the recipient of this term bully. This in itself I believe can be a form of bully tactic used by under performing staff or team members.

    I agree also that using the 360 degree self evaluation is a good tool if the person at the centre of this really wants to improve but more importantly if the business as a whole wants to look at how is managers and staff are impacting the business and how to make the business stronger or more enjoyable for those working at the business.

    I feel for all of you that find yourself in the abusive or unsafe environments that you talk of. My thoughts are like any abusive relationship though is that the chances of fixing it are going to either be really remote or take a huge personal toll on you and the best thing to do would be move on and find a more positive place to work.

    We do not have to tolerate bullying but I think that we also have to ensure that we do take an objective view of our environments and make decisions based of what is going to be best for ourselves and what will keep us safe. Most of all be honest.

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    Datawiz

    10/29/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    onoropu, I am interested in your thoughts here please. Do you see that by having a manager that encouraged you to compete with each other
    for kudos, resources, etc created an enviroment for you to step over the line as you say or was it the way in which you got competitive and the way you dealt with the situation that caused the problem?

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    DivaDelight

    10/29/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    When I approached my supervisor who witnessed the bullying she replied, "that is just the way he is"! She almost laughed in my face. The occurances were brought to the attention of other supervisors which escalated the situation. The bully did this for years in front of the supervisors!

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    mfedna

    10/29/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Sharnoldin said it: "If you see something that is wrong enough to spark you to say something about it to your friend then have the courage to do something to solve it." Human Resources personnel are in general about "protecting the institution/company" and "moving people around". They are not problem solvers so I suggest making them aware but don't wait for "their help". Move on to communicate with the next level doing an olympic effort of 'controlling your heat' about the issue, and manage your tone of voice -- "neutralize" it because if you LOOK like you are 'unstable' HR will say 'the victim is to blame. I am experienced in this and would join an organization to prevent this in the workplace if one existed. I have stories other have: and the bullies are still going at it. M

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    laikacat

    10/29/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    No disrespect intended but really, you should be made aware that there is no such spelling as "femail" in reference to yourself. The word is spelled "female."

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    karen.steen@...

    10/30/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Pollyana, see the other items in this feature package for advice on how to deal with a workplace bully:

    How to Handle a Workplace Bully

    Video: Calling a Bully a Bully

    Karen Steen
    Senior Editor
    BNET

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    dryheat45

    10/30/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I worked for a megalomaniac who was also a control freak, and I sometimes had to submit to his whims; but in the end if he didn't back off when I had already told him it wasn't going to work or his deadline was ridiculous, I was standing nose to nose with him. This works both ways; if you have not made threatening or rude comments or gestures, then he has no just cause for firing you. Standing up for yourself will not get you fired for the same reasons they won't fire the bully; it's not PC. I admit I still had days when I forced myself to get dressed in the morning and go to work and I left for a company that respected and interacted with their employees and actually stood behind their managers, but I never lost any sleep over that jerk. Life is too short. Besides, there are always other jobs. I work directly for the VP of Operations, and he is a demanding sort; but he is never a bully and neither am I any of my people. He is results-oriented and I am sometimes hard pressed to meet a deadline, but it's almost always a deadline I had agreed to, the fact is that I have a job to do and I'm expected to do it or he will find someone who can and I will pressure my crews to respond to a deadline I know they can and should make. In a soap box moment here, I must sing the praises of the Toyota Production System, the best manufacturing system ever invented, and it's principals should be applied across every company. TEAM is the focus and screwing over other people or having them working against each other for favor is counterproductive. Causing grief for others is a sure-fire way for me to show you the door. My wish is American companies would stop picking through the carcass and taking on the easy parts and incorporate the system throughout. It's effects are amazing and it doesn't require legislation to enforce respect for its people. It doesn't require a manufacturing environment to work successfully since much of the focus is management and subordinate cooperation and interaction. I know I drifted a bit off topic, but what most of the posts are saying is that they are caught up in a corporate culture that thinks being a screaming egomaniac is a legitimate management style. TPS is quite the opposite and young managers should make a point of learning about TPS rather than the management style of their beet-faced supervisors and use those management techniques when it is their turn to lead.

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    Corinne.mg

    10/31/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Thank you Gerry Madigan. Datawiz - you mean you have never heard of the AA - Asscreepers Annonyous. May I suggest that you do "Assertiveness training" for your employees and see what happens. Bullying (not by you) is happening out there and you will not help by saying the problem does not exist.

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    Lmbchp

    10/31/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    "My wish is American companies would stop picking through the carcass and taking on the easy parts and incorporate the system throughout. "

    'bout sums up the problem!

    PS: in my expereience, the worst bullies are former victims (from the schoolyard)...

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    Mercytown

    10/31/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Datawiz,bullying is the abuse of power, and managers have more of it than their subordinates, so naturally the are managers that bully. The article is simply saying this fact (not, as you say, using the term loosely).

    Nowhere does it say that every boss is a bully. Please be objective. Bully at work, especially from superiors, is real, and veru common.

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    christinar

    11/07/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Tolerance for bullying is certainly at the organizational level: as they say, a fish stinks from the head. Luckily job seekers are beginning to have more tools to avoid companies where bullying is tolerated (e.g. online social networking tools and sites such as glassdoor.com where workers can candidly and anonymously discuss their experiences working at companies.) When companies realize they are losing money for the reasons noted in this article, and losing and top candidates because of their reputations, they might change. Some companies are even making new employees sign agreements not to be jerks. When these companies demonstrate via their financial statements that these policies result in more profits, hopefully, it will make other companies take notice. If they won't take action for reasons of common decency, maybe they'll take action to be more profitable.

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    DevilsAdvocate

    11/11/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    Augustineq,

    "Power" unfortunately is not limited to the quantum defined by organizational hiearchy - and therefore often, managers need necessarily not be more powerful than subordinates.

    Here's a situation - for real. My subordinate, a female, uses her sexual charm to become more powerful, chaperons north american junior when he visits India - and eventually becomes the most powerful female in the entire Quality & Compliance function.

    She uses her tears, cries foul and does everything possible & scares the hell out of my life, with threats of sexual harrassment.

    And all of this is one of the premier Human Resource Consulting companies.

    I had to quit -

    Less than 6 months down the line, she is in my position.

    Bullying therefore, need not only be resorted to by managers - sexual harrassment by very junior colleagues can also be bullying to death !

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    NBNZ

    11/18/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I have always been lucky with my Managers but my friends have had some bad ones. Unfortunately if higher-ups take no action, it's difficult to find a solution (other than leaving) which helps no-one. Now I am a Manager myself & I found some of my staff were 'picking on' another staff member. They were making nasty remarks & belittling her job performance, making a big thing of any mistake she made. Luckily we have a Code of Conduct that every employee signs upon hiring. I first told the two culprits I was aware of their behaviour & I expected it to cease immediately. When it didn't, I called them in & gave them a verbal warning: they are breaching the Code of Conduct and the consequences can lead to dismissal (not to mention difficulty finding another job). Another incident would lead to a formal (written) warning which would stay on their files & the next incident would be their last with the company. I have had no further bullying (so far!)
    Managers need to take a firm line & STICK TO IT! Bullying can absolutely destroy victims (& the company).
    We spend 8+ hours a day at work - it has to be enjoyable for everybody otherwise it's 8+ hours of hell - and nobody gets paid enough to put up with hell!

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    Patrick Zimmer

    11/18/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    The numerous and lengthy responses suggest this article struck an amazing "chord" that is really an unmet need. Bullying is a real issue for organizations that have weak top managers who recognize bullying but choose to ignore. HR (I am not an HR professional) is not to blame, rather it is each department manager who enables or has a bully on their staff. Generally, bullies are not difficult to recognize.

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    osuzannea@...

    11/21/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I went through the experience exactly as described in the article--the physical threats and scape goating. It wasn't my first time working for an insecure boss who felt intimidated by a younger, more eager, and less jaded employee.

    Whatever she did to me, I turned into a strength. Once I'd started as her assistant, she sat back and took personal calls all day and read people magazine. I was running around doing her job under the threat of being written up (because she would make something up to report to management).

    She got caught taking a long personal call. So, her solution to "not getting caught again" was I had to inform her when I stepped out to the bathroom so she would know when to end her five hour long call! I just pretended she didn't ask me to report to her like a first grader. There was no way she'd let that comment fly past management so I didn't have to deal with it.

    So her phone calls continued and management needed a reason as to why the problem of missed calls continued. She found some way to blame me to take the heat off her.

    I was sat down by upper management in a meeting titled "Complete Waste of Time." So after that I took over the phone, watching it like a hawk. In turn, I took over management's appointment books. She was left so far out of the loop that, she started racing ME for the phone. I handled all her abuse in this same manner trying to benefit in some possilbe way.

    After my most clever moves, she just started making up blatant lies. Anytime her work was critisized, she just pointed the finger to me.

    I think, eventually management picked up on what was happening but didn't want to settle the issue with any sort of democracy--just what was good for the long run of the company.

    I was the only break she'd ever gotten. She didn't want me to get fired, because she had to return to her regular schedule of working til 8 or 9 pm. She is a woman of few abilities and I, her little scape goat gave her the freedom of leaving at 3 pm everyday after two hour lunch breaks.

    I tried to reconcile with her numerous times but she didn't understand that I wanted a give and take relationship--I would benefit with experience and a needed referrance (becuause I was a college student) and she could leave at 3pm everyday.

    She didn't understand. She (I guess) thought I was planning on scr*wing her over in the future (because I wanted the glamourous underpaid job of an office manager in a two man company).

    That dimple on my record still follows me and has blocked me from really great job opportunities. My advice, if you see trouble rising, don't be the super hero because no matter what you produce, you will be known as "a problem" or "a management conflict." You can not shape how others chose to percieve you unfortunately.

    Ironically enough, she was also a useless HR manager. I know this site is not the biggest fan of those people so here's yet another reason!

    I eventually got fired under the pretense "I see you doing great work, but there is a problem, I don't know what it is, everhting you do is great, you have to go, sorry."

    Once in a while I still call to see if she is slaving away at 8 or 9pm!

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    robertp19406

    12/30/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I presently work in a wavefront high tech company.
    I gave up a functional business to join the organization, based on now unkept promises.
    My boss was a bully, who finally quit. I guess he just couldn't cut the place either, and bullied myself and others to offset his insecurities.
    Unfortunately, his actions have poisoned the company for me and his abusive reviews have left a legacy which completely eliminates any possibility of advancement.
    It turns out that the entire direct line of supervision up through executive VP are selective bullies who manage by abuse and coercion because they lack true leadership skills.
    Reviews are based on anonymous representations without evidence or guidance for performance modification. Why let a worker [who is required to submit daily logs] that you are supposed to supervise do something you don't like for a year without advising them and then penalize them?
    Oh, well...time to move on

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    brookwood21

    03/08/09 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I think bullying is simple. In the US are making an extra effort to teach and positively address this behavior in schools. We have yet to address it in the workplace. Bullying has been well defined. It is a pattern of behavior. It is hostile, demeaning and intrusive.
    My boss waits until I have sat down to lunch to loudly (in front of anyone passing through) says he is "just giving nformation" in a manner that sounds like I am recieving negative feedback, loud, demeaning tone and facial expression. He yells, listens outside of doors, refuses to check whether what he is yelling about is accurate (ie:does not stand up for his staff), never, never, notices positive behavior or performance. His loud demeaning verbal attacks are most frequently in a public area of the workplace, and inconsistent, so you never know when one is coming. His targets are all females, four of whom have left in the last two years. I am the only target who has not left, but then I am a single parent with a daughter going to college soon, and I live in a town with no other job in my field that pays even close to what I am making. Do I sell my home, move away, tell my daughter "sorry?" His behavior has caused so much turnover, that the other staff are upset at their extra workload and complaining to him about his behavior.
    Why is upper managment not setting boundaries for him? I just don't know, but I struggle to want to go to work, Sunday nights are difficult, etc. My moving on will take some time, if he does not leave first. I am carefully planning how to move on and not lose much money, etc. I sometimes think of suicide, it seems so hopeless. Effective supervision, just like effective parenting need never be angry. It need only be clearly communicated, with follow through, extra effort noticed, dignity and respect are important. I suspect he has treated others like this in his past jobs. What is the human cost to people who behave like this? I suspect it is high in terms of health costs, retraining costs, productivity costs. It is sad.

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    emmajohn

    03/18/09 | Report as spam

    seller tools

    i think so

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    SKPathan

    07/17/09 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I have done some research in the area of Workplace bullying/mobbing. It is a widely prevalent issue but unfortunately the least addressed. It is encouraged and gets rooted in the form of "tough management"

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    caifu_yang

    08/06/09 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I've no idea!
    Just do as you do!

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    estetik

    10/21/09 | Report as spam

    RE: Workplace Bullying: A Management Primer

    I think everyone needs to look at what is being said at times and if the business is not getting the results it expects from an individual then obviously it should have the right to question or seek remedies. karin germe estetigi

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